I think the feeling of something ending is a profound one and one we don't necessarily have a good sense to detect - unless the circumstances are obvious and in the forefront.
The Million Dollar View – The Relationship Between Distance and Gratitude
The Distraction of an “Abundance” Mindset
I fear this mentality does the inverse of what we would hope. It creates a sense of patience with our immediate routines while creating an inevitable frustration and impatience with our long term vision. When realistically it should be the opposite.
True Mistakes – A Closer Look At Mistakes and Expectations
A mistake made more than once is a decision. Do you agree?
The Illusion of Regret – Why Regret May Not Be What We Think It Is
Perhaps this feeling is not trying to pull you back to your past, but pull you into a future you internally want to see manifest. Something you may not have had the courage to do in the past but something you are ready to embody or 'be' now.
Puppet Masters – Stress, Anxiety and the Masks We Wear
Why is one of the most pressing questions we can come to ask ourselves. It speaks to our curiosity whilst promoting our sense of self. But why is not a simple endeavor by any stretch of the imagination. It is simply the beginning. A beginning that often finds us at a tipping point. And perhaps the current times is a tipping point, a point that has brought our state of mental health into question.
Sonoran Living Guest Feature on Arizona ABC 15
Today I had the opportunity to be a guest on Sonoran Living and speak with host Terri Ouellette.
That Last 1% – Why ‘Giving 110%’ Doesn’t Exist
"Human potential is not a destination but a trajectory." - Ramneek M
‘You Need To Say This Out Loud’ – The Importance of Intent Based Living
If you take a moment to think about it, you may come to realize how much of our lives play out nowhere else - but in our minds. How can we not expect that at some point or another, we may forget what we have shared with the outside world and what we have yet to articulate. It's not surprising that we find ourselves in an ever increasing state of mental fog, anxiety and insecurity.
The Gift of Negativity
If someone offers you a gift, and you refuse the gift - to whom does the gift belong to?
The Silver Bullet – Why One Size Does Not Fit All
As human beings, we have a deep rooted desire to be right. To have the answer. And not only have the answer, have the answer quickly. While there is some utility in being efficient, I feel we often times misappropriate too much value and correlation between speed and effectiveness.
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This past weekend, I found myself surrounded by family and loved ones – spending time together; celebrating my son who is the newest member of our family.
There were countless moments of reflection where we all spoke about ‘back then’. Back then, when I was younger [seeing me grow]
Back then, when they were younger [realizing their own growth and life changes]
And now, how things have turned out [‘Look at us all now”]. It made me think of all of the moments where we may, only in retrospection, realize was the last time it was ever going to be that way.
I came across several blog posts that speak to this notion – I knew I would find some good ones – I stole some of these to share:
The last time you would see your friends in class.
The last time you would log into a messenger, via dial-up internet, and wait in suspense to see who else shows up on a school night evening.
The last time your family would ever live under the same household.
The last time you would ever walk into a movie rental store and wander the ‘new releases’ and the excitement of finding something new.
I think the feeling of something ending is a profound one and one we don’t necessarily have a good sense to detect – unless the circumstances are obvious and in the forefront. ➡️A break up.
➡️The sale of your car.
➡The last day at a job.
I think the punchline is, there are so many moments and dynamics in our lives that will never come back and you may be in the midst of the last time it will ever be this way.
And as chaotic as a traffic jam on a friday night looks from the ground in New York City, the flyover of that same moment is ‘the view’ everyone is bidding to have. "Distance fosters the potential of gratitude." – @ramneekrm
If only we were more mindful of creating distance in our lives, before things truly came to an end.
We may find ourselves love a little more.
We may find ourselves hold each other a little closer.
We just may have the courage to be as we would have hoped, looking back.
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