Ramneek Mathur – Private Advisor & Life Strategist
To experience is to live, to share the experience is to live well.
I fear this mentality does the inverse of what we would hope. It creates a sense of patience with our immediate routines while creating an inevitable frustration and impatience with our long term vision. When realistically it should be the opposite.
A mistake made more than once is a decision. Do you agree?
Today I had the opportunity to be a guest on Sonoran Living and speak with host Terri Ouellette.
"Human potential is not a destination but a trajectory." - Ramneek M
Back in August of 2019, I was humbled to be featured by Voyage Phoenix Magazine. Just wanted to share it and give a special thank you to the team for recognizing my content on Instagram and reaching out.
As human beings, we have a deep rooted desire to be right. To have the answer. And not only have the answer, have the answer quickly. While there is some utility in being efficient, I feel we often times misappropriate too much value and correlation between speed and effectiveness.
The more you understand, the better you are. Sometimes we can fear 'tangents' but I have come to find that tangents are many times the foundation to what will differentiate you from someone else.
It matters not when you began but if you finished on time. And as soon as you understand this principle, you begin to work backwards.
The waltz of success is riddled with rejection and affirmation.
I have been in the real estate business for 14 years now. Currently, I am an associate broker at Homesmart International and my work is based in the Phoenix Metropolitan area in Arizona. On the top level, I am an advisor (Ramneek's LinkedIn). A real estate broker is just one method from which I deliver value to my clients but over the years I began to see dynamics that are, often times, difficult for people in this business to overcome. One particular nuance to this business has much to do with the following statement:
![🔥New Blog Post: The Million Dollar View🔥
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This past weekend, I found myself surrounded by family and loved ones – spending time together; celebrating my son who is the newest member of our family.
There were countless moments of reflection where we all spoke about ‘back then’. Back then, when I was younger [seeing me grow]
Back then, when they were younger [realizing their own growth and life changes]
And now, how things have turned out [‘Look at us all now”]. It made me think of all of the moments where we may, only in retrospection, realize was the last time it was ever going to be that way.
I came across several blog posts that speak to this notion – I knew I would find some good ones – I stole some of these to share:
The last time you would see your friends in class.
The last time you would log into a messenger, via dial-up internet, and wait in suspense to see who else shows up on a school night evening.
The last time your family would ever live under the same household.
The last time you would ever walk into a movie rental store and wander the ‘new releases’ and the excitement of finding something new.
I think the feeling of something ending is a profound one and one we don’t necessarily have a good sense to detect – unless the circumstances are obvious and in the forefront. ➡️A break up.
➡️The sale of your car.
➡The last day at a job.
I think the punchline is, there are so many moments and dynamics in our lives that will never come back and you may be in the midst of the last time it will ever be this way.
And as chaotic as a traffic jam on a friday night looks from the ground in New York City, the flyover of that same moment is ‘the view’ everyone is bidding to have. "Distance fosters the potential of gratitude." – @ramneekrm
If only we were more mindful of creating distance in our lives, before things truly came to an end.
We may find ourselves love a little more.
We may find ourselves hold each other a little closer.
We just may have the courage to be as we would have hoped, looking back.
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